In 10 years as a sex therapist and 20 years as a marital therapist, I've had gobs of complaints from women whose partners were too big for comfortable sex. I've only had 2 in 20 years about her partner being too small. The first woman had a vaginal laxity after childbirth (previously, he had been "just right" and the second woman had marvelous orgasms with the small man but had a mental block.
I ask for his pre-op dimensions. He doesn’t want his exact measurements reported, but they are surprising: while flaccid, he was smaller than most men; erect, his penis grew significantly. Modecai, it seems, experienced two decades of stress despite the fact that, fully extended, he was bigger than the UK average. This apparent contradiction does not surprise Angela Gregory, a psychosexual therapist based at Nottingham University Hospitals NHS Trust. “Penis enlargements can be about a lot of things,” she says. “But the amount of anxiety a man experiences rarely, in my experience, correlates with his actual size.”
Two urological researchers, Marco Ordera and Paolo Gontero of the University of Turin in Italy, examined outcomes from both surgical and nonsurgical procedures for “male enhancement” in previous studies. Half of the studies involved surgical procedures performed on 121 men; the other half involved nonsurgical enhancement techniques used by 109 men.
first of all, talking about your problem is really bold and the right step. While 3,3 inches may be below average, it doesn’t mean you can’t satisfy a women. There are many more ways than just intercourse and there are women who absolutely prefer a smaller penis over a large one, because a big penis is painful for them. For many, 3,3 inches are fine and enough. There is much more about being a man than just penis size, a huge penis doesn’t make you a better man, a good husband or a loving father. Just because the guys in adult movies are hung like a horse and keep an erection for hours virtually doesn’t mean that’s normal, they often heavily rely on vacuum pumps and chemical help like PDE5 inhibitors. That’s not the average guy, that’s not what average women want. So, there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed or too shy, don’t let your penis define your self-confidence!
Even though the male reproductive system consists of numerous organs, the penis plays an important role. Therefore, many men wish to increase the size of their genitals for enhanced sexual experience. Various exercises can help in increasing the size of the penis and it is believed that one can see a considerable improvement in the size of the penis by consistently practising these exercises for over a period. In 6 months’ time, a significant change could be observed.