Anxiety is everywhere, floating freely through the air, passing from person to person like a virus on the wings of a sneeze. While some of us feel nervous about our jobs, our health, or our families, others feel a very personal dread about our own bodies. Preoccupied by physical appearances, we can become distracted from what matters most in life, and turn instead to worrying about some highly specific body part. If, by chance, we zero in on the piece of ourselves most closely associated with intimacy — our genitals — we might shut down entirely.
My boyfrien is 6'1" tall and he weights 247 pounds now, he has been on a diet and lost 35 pounds already and yes he has been better in bed but in the outside he still doesn't look at the way he wants (I would appreciate too if his penis can look bigger),you said that quit meat and we have been doing that for a year, he doesn't smoke neither, his problem is his sedentary life even that he is trying to walk and do exercise more often now.
first of all, talking about your problem is really bold and the right step. While 3,3 inches may be below average, it doesn’t mean you can’t satisfy a women. There are many more ways than just intercourse and there are women who absolutely prefer a smaller penis over a large one, because a big penis is painful for them. For many, 3,3 inches are fine and enough. There is much more about being a man than just penis size, a huge penis doesn’t make you a better man, a good husband or a loving father. Just because the guys in adult movies are hung like a horse and keep an erection for hours virtually doesn’t mean that’s normal, they often heavily rely on vacuum pumps and chemical help like PDE5 inhibitors. That’s not the average guy, that’s not what average women want. So, there is absolutely no reason to be ashamed or too shy, don’t let your penis define your self-confidence!
But flaccid or erect, penis size depends on the amount of blood flowing through the organ. The more blood, the larger the man looks. Blood flow into the penis depends on the diameter of the arteries that carry blood into it. You want wide open arteries that carry the most blood. Relaxation allows these arteries to open up. Stress and tension constrict them. So men who are relaxed look larger. Please tell your boyfriend that worrying about his size makes him look smaller. If he relaxes about it, he should look larger.
Brandon Bartling, store manager of The Pleasure Chest, an erotic store located in New York City's West Village, understands this as well. His store carries any number of products that cater to this manly desire, everything from dietary supplements to a “penis extender, which is a sleeve that you literally wear over your penis to increase length and girth. Kind of like a thick, firm condom in a phallus shape,” he told Medical Daily in an email. He added his customers tell him that “the Blue Wolf pills work the best to help boost one’s ability to obtain firmer, longer lasting erections, while others swear by the Bathmates line of Hydromax and Hercules pumps.”
• Embrace meditative relaxation. The arteries the carry blood into the penis are surrounded by muscle tissue. When men feel anxious (including worrying about penis size), these muscles contract, constricting the arteries and reducing blood inflow and size. But as men relax deeply, these muscles also relax, opening the arteries, maximizing blood flow, and boosting size, (Erection drugs work by relaxing these muscles.)
Even though the male reproductive system consists of numerous organs, the penis plays an important role. Therefore, many men wish to increase the size of their genitals for enhanced sexual experience. Various exercises can help in increasing the size of the penis and it is believed that one can see a considerable improvement in the size of the penis by consistently practising these exercises for over a period. In 6 months’ time, a significant change could be observed.