I was married for 3 years to a guy who hung like a horse. He wasnt a skilled lover and I have a small vagina. My husband of 22 years is about 6 1/2 inches erect (average) and very skilled. What I have learned over the years to enjoy the fullness of him, is to wait until Im nearly finished with my climax and then have him pluge fully in to his comfort. Its great. My climax is still going and I feel the fullness of him. I cant get enough!
• Embrace meditative relaxation. The arteries the carry blood into the penis are surrounded by muscle tissue. When men feel anxious (including worrying about penis size), these muscles contract, constricting the arteries and reducing blood inflow and size. But as men relax deeply, these muscles also relax, opening the arteries, maximizing blood flow, and boosting size, (Erection drugs work by relaxing these muscles.)
Although thеrе аrе ѕurgісаl techniques tо еnhаnсе thе penis, most ѕurgеоnѕ wіll nоt uѕе them only fоr соѕmеtіс рurроѕеѕ. Mаnу of thе tесhnіԛuеѕ аrе ѕtіll experimental аnd mау give mіxеd results. Thе mоѕt соmmоn ѕurgісаl technique іѕ сuttіng thе ѕuѕреnѕоrу ligament, whісh аllоwѕ thе еntіrе penis tо hаng dоwn. Thіѕ mаkеѕ іt appear longer. Skin саn аlѕо be mоvеd tо the реnіѕ frоm the pubic аrеа, or fat mау be rеmоvеd from other аrеаѕ аnd іnjесtеd into the penis size. Hоwеvеr, thе Mауо Clіnіс warns thаt these рrосеdurеѕ саn саuѕе scarring аnd dеfоrmіtіеѕ.
"It's a real shame that penis size hang-ups make so many men feel inadequate," says sex educator Betty Dodson, Ph.D. "I urge men to make peace with their penises. It's fine as it is. Enjoy what you've got, and you'll be a happier lover--and probably a better lover. And if you want to be a really great lover, understand that while most women enjoy gentle, well-lubricated intercourse, what makes them come is clitoral caresses--and for most women, intercourse doesn't provide much clitoral action. I couldn't care less about a man's size. Give me an enthusiastic tongue on my clit any time."
If you cannot afford SizeGenetics extender just yet (although on a long run you might want to consider that combination), then here are some simple tricks that might work for you. Remember, this is all partially only illusion (unfortunately) because it only makes your dick LOOK bigger, and on the other hand, some examples are not really “safe for work” since you will going to have to play around with yourself a little.
He married, had children and learned to live with his unease. Then, four years ago, after separating from his wife, he asked a new partner how he measured up to her ex-husband. “It was a stupid question,” Alistair admits. “It’s pathetic that I cared at my age – but I did. To start with she told me it was fine, but I kept pushing and, eventually, she just told me: his was bigger.”
Then, in the back of a weightlifting magazine, he saw an ad for the FastSize Extender, a device that claims to make the penis longer and fatter through traction. Richard began wearing the device almost eight hours a day, every day. He was shocked to notice a difference within a few days. After four months of wearing the device, he says his flaccid penis has stretched from 3 inches to over 5 inches; erect, he has gone from less than 6 inches to over 7 inches. The device cost $298, but Richard says the effect on his self-confidence has been priceless: "It made a world of difference to me."